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Parents have a tendency to label kids as defiant when they don\'t match preconceived notions of how children should behave, according to award-winning author Dr. Shefali Tsabary. But, if you listen closely, your child is trying to send you a message in every argument and act of misbehavior. Watch as Dr. Shefali reveals what all children would communicate if only they had the words.

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