4:25 minutes

Justin\'s father is now back in his life, and he is trying to determine how much of a relationship he wants with him. His question for Iyanla and Oprah now is this: If he doesn\'t want a relationship with his father, is it fair to his children to cut those ties as well? Find out why Iyanla says he can\'t control the relationships other people have. Plus, watch what happens when Iyanla walks Justin through a traumatic memory and helps him realize he is no longer a helpless child.

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